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that’s right.
(please ignore the...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/111d4580e706f94f7b0f8ecfb6a4cfcf/tumblr_mm8vf47OfN1rmwb2do1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://heavenly-atheist.tumblr.com/post/49544085056/thats-right-please-ignore-the-unicurl" target="_blank"&gt;heavenly-atheist&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;that’s right.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(please ignore the unicurl) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;same&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50791253868</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50791253868</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 22:26:54 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a0c2398dc4bd28454717ee15051afecb/tumblr_mn0oayDsga1qagdeao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50766027953</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50766027953</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 16:08:28 -0700</pubDate><category>me</category></item><item><title>katara:

This might be my favorite tweet of all time
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/55f149ad5f5216b25eb1259630fcb23c/tumblr_mmn49idwCZ1qeuzd0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://katara.tumblr.com/post/50170781311/this-might-be-my-favorite-tweet-of-all-time" target="_blank"&gt;katara&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This might be my favorite tweet of all time&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50671746070</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50671746070</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 13:14:50 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>selfcarezine:

Check out this mix on 8tracks: “Everything Seems...</title><description>&lt;iframe src="http://8tracks.com/mixes/1758961/player_v3_universal" width="400" height="224" style="border: 0px none;"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://selfcarezine.tumblr.com/post/50662034467/check-out-this-mix-on-8tracks-everything-seems" target="_blank"&gt;selfcarezine&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Check out this mix on 8tracks: “Everything Seems Clear and We’re Alright”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Dears - Sinthro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Au Revoir Simone - Only You Can Make You Happy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clap Your Hands Say Yeah - Sunshine And Clouds (And Everything Proud)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Cat Power - I Found A Reason&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sharon Van Etten - We Are Fine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Alabama Shakes - You Ain’t Alone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;The xx - Infinity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Beach House - Heart of Chambers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Bat For Lashes - Peace of Mind&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Submarines - The Wake Up Song&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Flaming Lips - When You Smile&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sufjan Stevens - The Dress Looks Nice On You&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Regina Spektor - One More Time With Feeling&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Oasis - Live Forever&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;Jonsi - Go Do&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you have a self care playlist? &lt;a href="mailto:selfcarezine@gmail.com" target="_blank"&gt;We’d love to hear it!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;enjoy~&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50662198874</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50662198874</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 10:32:20 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>patchedfox:

Geek Girl Con 2012
My friends and I went to Geek...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c3d4c289ca4885dc1f5cbb50e6f82b5b/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/387890703b76fc7fbf7fe2f96ff10d85/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8b39a59f7ab47ffe0257ce08832c8019/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/024e697e58cc9bf6bb7b4de563e4c7f1/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d6ebe4db8157704d561c0be8918f6585/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/39b4f7957f68c1cc9b9de5d7c4972cf7/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/34395d40abc625738391de1702152198/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d3bc5c0ed29b15bcaf88ce61fa07180e/tumblr_mmv7ajeR981r4ll6co7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://patchedfox.tumblr.com/post/50536837276/geek-girl-con-2012-my-friends-and-i-went-to-geek" target="_blank"&gt;patchedfox&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Geek Girl Con 2012&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;My friends and I went to Geek Girl Con last year as the Teen Titans. We had such an amazing time! Its a fairly new Con, so it was pretty small, but it was fun to just hang out and be nerds with everyone. People loved our cosplays, it was so exciting. We even entered the costume contest, which is something I’d never have the guts to do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I went to Sakura-con this year, I discovered that they had used our picture for the business cards, and we were so excited. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Geek Girl Con is in Seattle, on October 19th and 20th this year, so I encourage anyone who can come to do so, because it’s a fantastic con. :)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;heeeee! this makes me happy!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50598568159</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50598568159</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 13:44:21 -0700</pubDate><category>geekgirlcon</category><category>seattle</category><category>my art</category><category>cosplay</category><category>teen titans</category><category>cuties</category></item><item><title>rudethoughtsonbabyanimals:

“well we couldve been friends if u...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/84486955691cd047e7ded47c7554bf67/tumblr_mmt9y9MKMd1sqf829o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rudethoughtsonbabyanimals.tumblr.com/post/50453079964/well-we-couldve-been-friends-if-u-werent-such-a" target="_blank"&gt;rudethoughtsonbabyanimals&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“well we couldve been friends if u werent such a fuckin misogynist”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50597293335</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50597293335</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 13:25:51 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>gradientlair:

I love Solange! She keeps it 100, whether this...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2985f5fe4b99dc8308d38e6f23e71fd0/tumblr_mmtd5hZgKg1s08edto1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8b6724d91f9e47d96d2503534f5d1f18/tumblr_mmtd5hZgKg1s08edto2_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1a469132c89c0faa9373520f426a2985/tumblr_mmtd5hZgKg1s08edto3_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a19587f4db003fc36b69dd36c7094d3f/tumblr_mmtd5hZgKg1s08edto4_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://www.gradientlair.com/post/50500609111/solange-critiques-sexism-in-music-industry" target="_blank"&gt;gradientlair&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gradientlair.com/?tag=solange" target="_blank"&gt;I love Solange&lt;/a&gt;! She keeps it 100, whether this thread above, or &lt;a href="http://www.gradientlair.com/post/49025487212/white-women-racist-black-women-natural-hair" target="_blank"&gt;telling a racist off about her hair&lt;/a&gt; or calling out &lt;a href="http://www.gradientlair.com/post/39769799234/solange-on-music-industry-writing" target="_blank"&gt;the lack of perspective involved in some music blogging&lt;/a&gt;, she brings the truth!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50584351577</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50584351577</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 09:46:15 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>stvincentinexile:

If you are part of a privileged group and have to constantly demand that somebody...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://stvincentinexile.tumblr.com/post/49194760893/if-you-are-part-of-a-privileged-group-and-have-to" target="_blank"&gt;stvincentinexile&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you are part of a privileged group and have to constantly demand that somebody in an oppressed group say “not all (insert privileged group here) are like that” &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;what you are really demanding is that they reassure you that &lt;em&gt;you’re &lt;/em&gt;not like that and &lt;em&gt;you’re &lt;/em&gt;not being held accountable &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;which is a cowardly thing to do and also shows the great lengths you will go to in order to avoid examining your role in a toxic system&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50584200440</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50584200440</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 09:43:23 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>callingoutbigotry:

Why the word “stupid” is considered ableist
queeroctopus:

neoptolemos:

Will...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://callingoutbigotry.tumblr.com/post/49740586697/why-the-word-stupid-is-considered-ableist" target="_blank"&gt;callingoutbigotry&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://inspire-enthusiasm.tumblr.com/post/6306366680" target="_blank"&gt;Why the word “stupid” is considered ableist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://queeroctopus.tumblr.com/post/6297964751" target="_blank"&gt;queeroctopus&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://neoptolemos.tumblr.com/post/6297486975" target="_blank"&gt;neoptolemos&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Will someone explain to me why the word “stupid” is considered ableist? Because this seriously baffles me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt; “Stupid” has been used by the medical community and the community at large to describe people with developmental disorders. My boyfriend was mocked by teachers and called “stupid” because he’s dyslexic. My doctor told my mother I was “stupid” because of various aspects of my autism. “Stupid” has been used to justify locking people like me in asylums, in basements. “Stupid” has been used to disavow testimony given by people like me. My grandmother is what is still medically classified in some places as “retarded” and as a child, was abused by various people in various ways, and when she spoke about it, nobody believed her because she was “stupid”. The eugenics movement is against us “stupid” people even existing, and I consider anyone who believes in always aborting Down Syndrome fetuses as part of this, by the way.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Intelligence is not a measure of character. Intelligence, in many ways, is also subjective. I cannot remember names or act in the usual social way. I cannot hold a pen My boyfriend cannot spell or pronounce things well. My autistic cousin Joe has been taught most of his life how to tie his shoes and he still cannot. Yet, we are all smart in various ways. My partner has a wide array of knowledge, as do I. And Joe is bloody smart for his age.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Insult someone by calling them ignorant, deliberately ill-informed, pig-headed, stubborn. Do not insult intelligence levels. Ignorance is a choice, intelligence… well, it just isn’t. Your capacity to learn, and your access to learning materials, aren’t always under your control, and have nothing to do with your character.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50583917419</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50583917419</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 09:38:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>rosalarian:

Angelina Jolie had a double mastectomy, in case you...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/101ddf748dc71061ead985e903b20292/tumblr_mmt9daWscy1qbtxv8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/79c084180cb4f8b95980f57d6d1f4d7b/tumblr_mmt9daWscy1qbtxv8o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rosalarian.tumblr.com/post/50452207989/tickingtimebomb" target="_blank"&gt;rosalarian&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Angelina Jolie had a double mastectomy, in case you hadn’t heard. How dare she remove those ticking time bombs from her chest, amiright? Like, hasn’t she learned by now that her body is public domain and we all get to vote on what she does with it? Sheesh, how selfish can ya get.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50477044322</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50477044322</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 21:42:20 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Plot Twist</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://wtfisbobbenson.tumblr.com/post/49961443808/plot-twist" target="_blank"&gt;wtfisbobbenson&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Bob Benson is Bobby Draper from the future. The season finale will reveal that this was a sci-fi short story by Ken Cosgrove all along, à la the &lt;em&gt;Roseanne&lt;/em&gt; series finale.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50405071461</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50405071461</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 23:16:26 -0700</pubDate><category>mad men</category><category>bob benson</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/819f847b49f5a86b4fd88f26a55e3ade/tumblr_mmkgdsxTuH1rocgiio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50381152015</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50381152015</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 17:23:46 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>fromonesurvivortoanother:

lots of love this mother’s day for everyone who has a complex...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fromonesurvivortoanother.tumblr.com/post/50225413926/lots-of-love-this-mothers-day-for-everyone-who" target="_blank"&gt;fromonesurvivortoanother&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;lots of love this mother’s day for everyone who has a complex relationship with their mom, everyone who has ceased communication with their mom for reasons of self-preservation, and every person whose mom is deceased&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50322115488</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50322115488</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 21:47:37 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"Why do you live in your body like you will be given another? As if it were temporary. You starve it,..."</title><description>“Why do you live in your body like you will be given another? As if it were temporary. You starve it, you let anyone touch it, you berate it. Tell it that it should be completely different. You tug at your soft flesh, wish it thinner, wish it gone. You fall in love with those who praise the way it sighs under their hands, but who praises the way it holds up your weight, even when you are falling apart?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Warsan Shire&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50316131700</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50316131700</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 20:18:08 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>
First trailer for Arrested Development - Season 4!

!!!!!!!!!</title><description>&lt;iframe src="//www.tumblr.com/video/rayemanadvoratrelundar/50313721022/400" id="tumblr_video_iframe_50313721022" class="tumblr_video_iframe" width="400" height="225" style="display:block;background-color:transparent;overflow:hidden;" allowTransparency="true" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;First trailer for &lt;strong&gt;Arrested Development&lt;/strong&gt; - Season 4!&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50313721022</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50313721022</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 19:46:52 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>fuckyeahfeminists:

grrlyman:

Shout out to everyone who had to be their own mother/parent.
Just...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fuckyeahfeminists.com/post/50301947235/grrlyman-shout-out-to-everyone-who-had-to-be" target="_blank"&gt;fuckyeahfeminists&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://grrlyman.tumblr.com/post/50278767699/shout-out-to-everyone-who-had-to-be-their-own" target="_blank"&gt;grrlyman&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Shout out to everyone who had to be their own mother/parent.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Just because your parents weren’t capable doesn’t mean you didn’t deserve love and security.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’m proud of us, of the amazing humans we’ve raised.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;props to ya’ll!!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50307378401</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50307378401</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 18:28:26 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/81bca79b5549441d2553c61af2de193c/tumblr_mkbmh40IOT1qglhc3o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50284936123</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50284936123</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 13:27:40 -0700</pubDate><category>gpoy</category></item><item><title>what you said was: "i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"&#13;</title><description>what you said was: "i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"&lt;br /&gt;&#13;
what you meant was: "i and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity"&lt;br /&gt;&#13;
what i heard was: "hi i'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face"</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50279863523</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50279863523</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 12:22:31 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Your Fave Is Problematic: Dan Savage</title><description>&lt;a href="http://yourfaveisproblematic.tumblr.com/post/49284037149/dan-savage"&gt;Your Fave Is Problematic: Dan Savage&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://yourfaveisproblematic.tumblr.com/post/49284037149/dan-savage" target="_blank"&gt;yourfaveisproblematic&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://fucknodansavage.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;fucknodansavage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;“&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=13054" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Divorced parents, gay dad, the HIV bombshell… and now, so suddenly, a woman. That’s an awful lot for a high-school-age kid, especially a boy, to deal with. The tr***y activists are going to jump down my throat for this, but… it seems to me that your ex could’ve put off the…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;i’m so tired of explaining why dan savage makes me rage&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50279543900</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50279543900</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 12:18:27 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e66714608fed619497f8f82b5c79174c/tumblr_mmjd74IT7Q1qe0e16o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50276265936</link><guid>http://blog.rachelleabellar.com/post/50276265936</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 11:36:02 -0700</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
